https://www.onconflictpodcast.com/adam-kahane-episode-6/ A podcast by Julia Menard and Gordon White Thu, 07 Jul 2022 07:45:42 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.2 https://www.onconflictpodcast.com/adam-kahane-episode-6/#comment-24 Thu, 15 Nov 2018 20:01:28 +0000 https://www.onconflictpodcast.com/?p=368#comment-24 I enjoyed that. Sometime ago I reduced 20 years of ADR after 20 years of architecture to one word ‘Listen’.
Then to add action I added ‘Be Kind’. More recently I distilled all my experience in these fields to a short paragraph. So ‘in my humble opinion’ here it is:
Differences are the source of all creation.
Conflict is Differences searching for space and relationship.
Disputes are when Conflicts become stuck and are unable to move forward.
The lubrications to unstick disputes are Empathy and Compassion.
The methodology is to Listen, to be curious and to be Kind.

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